The Smoking Fetish: Is It The Newest Form of Sexual Stimulation?
In the last a number of years I've noticed a steady improve in a particular kind of sexual stimulation known as the smoking fetish.
The question I posed to myself was of a various nature. What does olfactory stimulation, or the sense of smell, as associated to exhaled cigarette smoke, have to do with sexual excitement?
For thousands of years it has been known that the sense of smell can stimulate sexual response in human beings along with other animals.
Pheromones are chemical molecules secreted and fit particularly at olfactory receptor sites at locations in the nasal canal. These receptor websites, in turn, send signals to the brain. These signals generally trigger a sexual stimulatory response within the opposite sex, and attraction happens.
Millions of dollars are spent producing perfumes, colognes, and other numerous fragrances within the attempt to trigger 1 human to attract an additional via the sense of smell. If the opposite sex likes the smell, an attraction can happen. This attraction, in turn, ultimately leads to some type of sexual attraction. The long-term goal of the sexual attraction, obviously, would be to influence that individual into some sexual encounter.
There has been scores of scientific studies researching the effects of pheromones and fragrances, that trigger sexual attraction in between humans.
There has been 1 scent, or smell, entirely overlooked by the scientific community.
I don't know if it's so a lot new, or just lately found. But there exists a smell that causes very strong sexual responses. At least in many people. Perhaps many individuals. This olfactory response, or smell, is simply the smell of exhaled cigarette smoke.
Do not laugh. I'm totally severe.
All you need to do is conduct a search on the web of smoke fetishes, and you will discover millions of web sites related to the subject of smoking and sexual excitement.
I wanted to know why, and why the smell of smoke is so sexually exciting to many, using the growing political incorrectness associated with it.
The Smoking Fetish
There are several different aspects and factors why an individual can be excited by the act of smoking. Usually it's by watching the act.
The most predominant type of sexual fetish I've researched will be the male watching the female perform the act of cigarette smoking.
After researching this subject and being a bit confused as to why this fetish even exists, I've obtained information that has not just satisfied a lot of my curiosity concerning the subject, but has also given me factors as to why this fetish exists.
The male appears to expertise a sexual tension, or high, watching an appealing woman light up and bring the cigarette to her lips to draw the smoke in. The act of drawing, commonly referred to as pumping, or double pumping the smoke is accompanied by hollowing in the cheeks. This is followed by a lengthy, drawn out, exhalation of smoke into the air via pursed lips.
Some of us are more orally fixated than others. It has been scientifically documented that individuals who smoke, moreover females who smoke, have greater oral fixations then people who do not smoke. I'm certainly not sexist, as I'm a woman myself. But there does seem to exist in the literature an association between oral fixation and smoking.
Although I've gone over numerous in the visual stimulation affects that smoking has on people, which may be very stimulating to somebody, I'm not focusing on this subject right now in this article.
The concentrate of this article is more particularly on the actual olfactory response, or smell, of the exhaled smoke itself. To begin with, I should state there's no issue discovering many people who can't stand the smell of smoke in any form or fashion. With that stated and out in the way, let's press forward.
Why does the smoking fetish exist?
Does the smell in the exhaled smoke play a component in the fetish?
There's certainly a visual sexual attractiveness to the act of smoking. Watching a women bring a slim, lengthy, white cigarette to her red lips, make get in touch with with her lips, followed by performing the oral act in the cheek hollowing drawing in, inhaling and exhaling the smoke into the air can certainly cause sexual tension in some men.
But the focus of this article, again, is on the actual smell in the exhaled smoke itself.
When a woman exhales smoke into the air, with a sexual connotation, there's some thing sexually stimulating about watching the smoke roll via the air and slowly dissipate. Now let us focus on the actual smell of the cloud of exhaled smoke.
For one thing, there's definitely a distinction within the smell of exhaled smoke as compared to the smell of uninhaled smoke. There are certain types of secondhand smoke. There's smoke that rises off the end in the cigarette. There's the smoke that's drawn in orally into the oral cavity and if not inhaled into the lungs, but blown out, is heavier and smells different than inhaled smoke. On the other hand, when the smoke is drawn in, and inhaled into the lungs and blown out into the air, it definitely has different properties along with a various smell. The smell is different than any other smell in the cigarette.
I challenge anyone to have someone light a cigarette somewhere, and smell the smoke that comes from one finish, and then smell the smoke that is inhaled and blown into the air. They will smell some thing totally various.
The smoke that's been inhaled, followed by a lengthy plume exhalation into the air is really a a lot various smell. I must admit, it's a lighter, much more fragrant smell. Even as this exhaled smoke dissipates into the air 1 will notice the various smell. Many people describe the smell as not only much better than the other smells in the cigarette, but actually a great, pleasant smell. This perception in the smell of this kind of smoke isn't only from smokers themselves, but from many nonsmokers also.
For instance, I've had many individuals, even nonsmokers, clarify to me that they can't stand the smell of smoke in the air. The residual smoke and the smell of smoke on clothing, furniture, or in the room. However, they have the various perception of freshly exhaled smoke, particularly from the opposite sex as maybe when skilled in a public place such as a restaurant or bar.
Let me share story with you. One man came into my therapy session and explained that he had a smoking fetish. He did not understand he had this fetish till lately. However, he went on to clarify that he's by no means smoked and he could not stand the smell of smoke. Nevertheless, he had a girlfriend who smokes. They were in a restaurant 1 night and she lit up the cigarette and he was slightly offended at this act, but since he had a few drinks, he believed he was a lot more relaxed concerning the whole factor.
While watching his girlfriend's smoking he noticed that he became more thinking about the way she brought the cigarette to her lips, drew the smoke in and exhaled the smoke.
What really shocked him was prior to he got as much as use the restroom his girlfriend took a lengthy drag of her cigarette and blew the smoke into an area away from him. As he walked to the restroom he ended up walking correct via the cloud of her exhaled smoke. As he walked through this cloud he could not think he experienced the strongest sexual stimulation and urges he's by no means felt in his life. Following this, he was extremely curious concerning the entire experience. So he asked his girlfriend to blow her plume of smoke toward him and ultimately correct in his face.
Wanting to experiment with this more, when they arrived house, he asked her if she wouldn't mind if she blew much more smoke in his face. As she was smoking and she blew the plume of smoke into the air, the smoke slowly dissipated and made its way to his nose, he again skilled sexual sensations.
He admitted he was half embarrassed by the entire factor, but nonetheless curious. He asked his girlfriend to blow the smoke toward him each time she would exhale. She gladly accommodated him. The man explained that he was excited at not only the smell but the way the smoke slowly produced its method to his face either through plumes rolling via the air or slowly creating its way in waves toward him, like a lava lamp. As this exhaled smoke produced its method to his nose, once more, it stimulated him in a fashion he could not clarify.
Needless to say, that night he went on to have the best sex that he ever had with his girlfriend. He explained he had probably the most intense orgasm he had ever experienced.
When I asked him what he thought brought on all of this, he could not clarify. The only factor he could clarify was that the smell was much more feminine and reflected a peculiar appealing smell. He explained that the smell of her exhaled smoke was somehow a reflection of her own pleasure. He also explained something extremely fascinating to me. He went on to say that because the smoke was inside her appealing, feminine body, and exhaled it was somehow altered by her femininity and sexually exciting.
Again there is a particular sexual connotation to this. The man was referring to the smoke being inside of her, followed by becoming exhaled outside of her. This could be compared to the sexual act of becoming inside the woman, followed by a release and ultimately being outside of her.
I'm not precisely certain how lengthy this smoking fetish has been in existence. I'd suspect that it is been around a long time. However, many people are embarrassed by it for fear of being ridiculed.
With all of the political incorrectness going on about smoking it definitely could be something that someone would wish to suppress.
However with all the smoking fetish internet sites, forums, and discussion groups, the smoking fetish can certainly no longer be denied as one of the strong, and much more well-liked fetishes that exist. The internet has proved this.
In conclusion, even though I could partially understand why a man would be excited about watching the woman smoke due to the oral visual effects, I wanted to find out if there was actual stimulation from the smell in the exhaled smoke. Which, once more, is definitely different than the smell of smoke not inhaled.
In my opinion there's a distinction.
I've to admit that I appreciate smoking a Virginia Slim sometimes. I, myself, have smoked and attempted it both methods. Taking a drag in the cigarette and blowing the smoke out both ways. Following inhalation and after not being inhaled. Each myself, as well as my husband, agree that there is a difference. When I drew the same precise quantity of smoke in and inhaled, followed by an exhalation of a long plume of creamy smoke into the air, we each agree that the smell is extremely nice. Even sensual. A smell we each like, very a lot.
I also should admit that my husband liked the smell even though he could not explain why. By the way, the smell not only was enjoyed by each of us but excited my husband sexually. This in turn, excited me as well. I have also, really witnessed men in bars walking, or dancing correct into the direct path of exhaled smoke blown by an appealing woman. They attempted to become discreet. But they ended up staying within the exhaled smoke cloud as long as they could with out becoming noticed.
A few of the ladies noticed this and had been amused by it. One noticed it and whispered some thing into her girlfriend's ear and repeated the act two additional times so they could each witness it. Her friend then did it herself to watch the man "discreetly" immerse himself in her exhaled smoke cloud. I've also noticed other ladies who were uncomfortable after noticing men trying to smell their clouds, and moved to other areas. Not surprising. Some women are uncomfortable with this fetish, and do not want to know about it. Other people are either amused by it, appreciate it, and pleased to accommodate you by blowing smoke either in your face, or at least, toward you.
Still not convinced?
On another occasion, my husband and I went to a really exclusive restaurant for a unique evening together. We had been dressed for the occasion. My husband wearing a suit and tie, and I was wearing a silky dress, with sheer overlay, and high heels. Extremely floaty. Being the analyst that I am, I noticed a couple of things.
One, the majority of the time as I drew on my cigarette and blew out the smoke, I noticed numerous male eyes watching.
Two, something very peculiar indeed. While the waiter was bringing back our drinks, I positioned the cigarette in between my manicured fingernails away from the waiter, as to be polite, and blew my smoke out into the aisle way toward the floor. As my exhaled plume of smoke rolled toward the floor and pooled there, slowly dissipating, the waiter acted as if he did not notice something. However, he really went out of his way to bend down and position his head right in the midst of my exhaled smoke. He acted as if he was choosing something up off the floor. However, nothing was there. For some cause he knelt and bent down as to bath his face within the cloud of my fresh exhaled smoke.
He then walked away in a nervous-like fashion.
I do not know if it was the smell of my exhaled smoke mixed with the perfume I was wearing or what. But there was certainly some thing to it. My husband and I each noticed him performing this. I just smiled at my husband and the next time the waiter came back, I treated him to an additional fresh cloud greater up within the aisle-way for him to enjoy.
Again, he took the bait. He kept his face within the cloud till it was completely gone. It was as if he was totally absorbing it.
Even now, when my husband and I visit the mall, we both can identify the smell of freshly exhaled smoke within the air. We smell it, and look about. Certain sufficient, there is a couple of women sitting on a bench conversing, enjoying a cigarette and cup of coffee. At this point, we can even tell the difference between exhaled female smoke and male smoke, and whether it is a powerful unfiltered cigarette, or among the much more feminine cigarettes.
Sounds crazy doesn't it? But it's absolutely accurate. Actually, as explained, I really studied it more than a three month period and documented my outcomes. Confession, it has been 1 of my much more enjoyable research projects.
I should admit, when studying the top of the line sexually appealing females available, you know the ones ahead of their game, there's, and has been, evidence that taking a long drag of a cigarette with red luscious lips, followed by blowing lengthy plumes of creamy smoke into the air certainly works in obtaining attention. All you have to do is watch any movie from the 1940's or 1950's to witness this. Maybe the smell of this exhaled smoke had also played a role within the attraction. Maybe it has gone undocumented till now.
Perhaps I'll incorporate some of my therapy sessions to consist of blowing creamy plumes of smoke within the faces of clients who display sexual inhibitions. Maybe they'll benefit from it. Then again, maybe I will.
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